The anal personality is generally perceived as anxious and unable to manage the impulse to control situations. Their behavior goes beyond being helpful. For example, a person with an anal personality might research a product endlessly before buying it.
Freud’s Theory of the Anal Personality
Are you curious about the origins of the term anal personality? It dates back to the time of Austrian neurologist Sigmund Freud, who was the first to propose the existence of this personality type as part of psychoanalytic theory. Freud wrote about the anal-retentive personality in his early works on psycho-sexual development. Freud argued that there were three psycho-sexual stages during early child development:
Oral: From birth to one yearAnal: From Age 1 to Age 3Phallic: From Age 3 to Age 6
It was during the anal stage and toilet training that Freud argued the anal-retentive personality would develop. Freud felt that a child would decide whether to comply with their parent or not. If a parent was too strict or tried to toilet train a child too early, this would then lead to the child developing an anal-retentive personality. In addition, a child who was punished for toilet training accidents would also develop this personality. Certain historians believe that some of Freud’s theories were influenced by the state of indoor plumbing in addition to the Victorian social mores at the time that he lived. Since there was no indoor plumbing, no diapers, and no washing machine, restricting one’s bowel movements would have been a much larger concern for children who lived when Freud was a young boy. Freud’s depiction of the anal personality included being overly orderly, meticulous, suspicious, and reserved. Further traits that were later described included being stubborn, rigid, stingy with money and/or time, and having an obsession with being neat or clean. Other adjectives used to describe this personality were perfectionistic, detail-oriented, overly self-reliant, and having a passion for organizing, classifying, or collecting objects. A student of Freud’s, Karl Abraham, took the concept a step further and described the opposite of anal-retentive as being anal-expulsive (a person with a tendency to make a mess).
Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder
While Freud described the anal personality, the closest mental disorder that is currently described today in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) is obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD). This psychiatric diagnosis refers to a person with a compulsive and inflexible need for mental and interpersonal control. Similar to the anal personality, a person with OCPD will also show strong attention to detail, a need for orderliness in their environment, problems with perfectionism, and a tendency to make lists and rules to follow. This person may also have trouble delegating tasks and will be obstinate and rigid in their interpersonal dealings. They may have trouble getting rid of old things or spending money.
Differences Between Anal Personality and OCPD
What are the differences between having an anal personality and having OCPD?
Research on Anal Personality
In a classic 1966 study, researchers showed that those with an anal personality performed worse on a task that required them to place their hand into water that had an odor suggestive of fecal matter than people without an anal personality. The researchers speculated that this reflected ineffective defenses against “anal impulses.” In general, research has revealed that the anal personality appears as a cluster of traits rather than a defined type that would be defined as a disorder. In general, the term is rarely used in current psychological research and has much more been adopted colloquially to describe a certain personality “style.”
Signs You Have an Anal Personality
What are some signs you might have an anal personality yourself? Here are the signs to look for.
Do you buy 10 of everything at the grocery store so that you won’t run out?Do you organize the bills in your wallet by color or by how worn they are so that you can spend the dirty ones first?Do you look up words before you type them on social media to see whether you need to add a hyphen for proper grammar?Do you categorize your grocery list so that it is in the exact order of the items that you will be buying at the store?When you set clocks in your house, do you need to make sure that they are all set to the same minute and second?Does it bother you greatly if you see small errors or details?Have other people referred to you as overly neurotic about having things perfect around you?Do you find it hard to relax on the weekend or on vacation when you know that it should be a time to unwind and recharge?Are you stingy in how you consume things such as using only one square of toilet paper or not spending any of your money?
While these are just some examples of what it might be like if you have an anal personality, they show a common theme of needing to control your environment or behave in a way that involves withholding or being very careful about what you do.
What to Do About an Anal Personality
What should you do if you think you have an anal personality? That all depends on whether it bothers you or the people around you. Do you feel as though your behavior is excessive or out of your control? Those are other signs that you might need to seek help. If you have trouble delegating tasks or can’t handle when things don’t work out perfectly, this could interfere with your daily life or your ability to function at work. All of these are signs that it may be helpful to speak to a professional. On the other hand, if you are functioning well, aren’t bothered by your quirks, and the people around you are accepting of your personality, then it may simply be something that you learn to live with.
A Word From Verywell
It’s important to remember that there is a strong distinction between having an anal personality and having a diagnosable mental health disorder. If you are living with someone who is showing signs of needing to control their environment to an extreme, it may be hard to know if this is just a personality quirk or something deeper. If that person’s behavior appears to interfere with their daily life, causes them distress or causes distress to you or other people in their life, or they are unable to control their impulses or feel great anxiety when unable to carry out compulsions, these are all signs of something deeper than an anal personality. On the other hand, if someone you know appears to happily clean and organize and manage their money in a way that seems odd to you but that they enjoy or brings them joy, it could be that they simply are showing signs of what Freud identified so long ago. The translation of some unmet need or conflict during childhood into an adult manifestation that is less likely to cause trouble and appears more socially acceptable.
