When anxiety or panic attacks occur, the physical symptoms are often frightening and confusing. This condition leads to intrusive, repetitive thoughts that are focused on worry and doubt. These thoughts may cause you to experience a sense of helplessness, anxiousness, or a lack of confidence. Your behaviors can then start to mirror your feelings. For instance, you may avoid trying new things or participating in activities you once enjoyed.
Thought Stopping Techniques
While thought stopping may be used in therapy, you don’t need a trained clinician to practice this cognitive technique. The first step in thought stopping is to identify an unwanted worry or thought. The next step is to stop the negative thought. Traditionally, this is done by saying “Stop!” either aloud or in your head every time you have the negative thought. Other ways to stop negative thoughts in their tracks include:
Clapping your hands or snapping your fingersGetting up and movingImagining a big, red stop signSnapping an elastic band on your wrist
The final step in this process is to replace your negative thought with a positive and rational one. For example, you might try replacing those negative thoughts with positive self-talk such as telling yourself that you can deal with it.
Principles Behind Thought Stopping
The theory of why thought stopping works is pretty straightforward: Interrupting bothersome and unnecessary thoughts with a “stop” command or something more positive serves as a helpful reminder and a distraction. Thoughts of fear and worry tend to ruminate or repeat in your mind if you suffer from panic disorder. Left unchecked, they become automatic and occur frequently. In addition, using the thought stopping technique may give you a sense of control. When followed with positive and reassuring statements, you are breaking the negative thought habit and reinforcing a sense of reassurance. If unhealthy thought patterns have influenced how you feel and how you behave, so will healthy and beneficial thoughts—but in a much better way, of course.
Why It May Not Work for You
Thought stopping can be an effective strategy to help some people overcome negative thinking and gain a new perspective on life. However, this technique may not be suited for everyone and can even backfire in some circumstances. For example, some people find that trying to push anxious thoughts down only makes them build stronger until they all explode or come rushing out at once. It can create a feeling of responsibility or blame for a person having negative thoughts without actually figuring out where the thought came from in the first place. And for those with serious mental illnesses, it’s not effective to tell them to simply stop thinking bad thoughts.
Alternatives to Thought Stopping
Some people might find thought stopping useful. However, there are also other strategies that may be more effective for dealing with intrusive thoughts and anxious feelings.
Acceptance
Thought stopping can often work as a form of avoidance. Rather than confronting and coping with the thought, you are simply avoiding it. Instead of halting or pushing aside unpleasant, anxious, or intrusive thoughts, practicing acceptance can allow you to move past these thoughts without letting them contribute to your anxiety. You can practice acceptance by avoiding ruminating on the thought. Instead, let it pass through you without judgment and remind yourself that such thoughts can only hurt you if you let them.
Relaxation Techniques
When you feeling yourself experiencing anxious thoughts, practicing relaxation strategies can help you keep calm and move past the intrusive worries. Examples of relaxation techniques you might try include visualization, deep breathing, and progressive muscle relaxation. The more you practice, the better able you’ll be able to calm yourself quickly whenever you feel overcome with anxiety.
When to Seek Help
If you find that your negative thinking and anxiety have become overwhelming, it may be time to consult with a mental health provider. Anxiety may become worse over time, so tackling these feelings as soon as possible can be helpful. A therapist can help you to work through these issues and develop cognitive behavioral strategies to assist in dealing with your thoughts. Your therapist can also make referrals when needed, giving you access to additional treatment options. Your doctor or therapist may recommend medications along with psychotherapy.
A Word From Verywell
It is also important to remember that while many experts believe that your thoughts influence how you feel and how you behave, this does not mean that your thoughts are solely behind your troubling symptoms. There are often biological, environmental, and other causes contributing to your mental health condition, which can best be diagnosed and treated with the help of a healthcare professional.
