Friday Fix: Episode 61
It’s impossible to feel mentally strong when you’re giving away your power. But, it’s easy to get caught up in thinking traps that leave you feeling helpless. There may be several ways in which you give away your power without even realizing that you’re doing it. You might waste a lot of time thinking about someone you don’t like. That means you give that person power over your time. Or, you might let someone treat you poorly. Perhaps you don’t dare speak up because you don’t want to seem rude—but then you blame the other person for ruining your day. That means you give that person power over your life. But holding onto that grudge only affects you, not them. And ultimately, you give that person more power over you. Retaining your personal power requires you to take responsibility for the way you think, feel, and act. It’s about being proactive in how much time and energy you devote to the people and activities in your life. In today’s episode of The Verywell Mind Podcast, I’ll share a simple but powerful exercise that can help you take back your power so you feel more in control. It’s an exercise I use often in my therapy office. And while it can feel a little scary at first, empowering yourself can also open the door to opportunities you never thought possible. Links and Resources
Follow Amy Morin on Instagram Check out Amy’s books on mental strength Setting Boundaries for Stress Management How to Handle Unwanted Advice by Setting Boundaries How to Reduce Stress with Increased Assertiveness
